Sort a worry in a few steps: is it something you can act on now? If yes, plan one small step. If not, practise letting it go for now.
The worry tree comes from the CBT self-help book Manage Your Mind by Gillian Butler and Tony Hope, and is widely used for generalised anxiety. It separates practical problems, which problem-solving can help with, from hypothetical worries, which going over and over rarely resolves. Sorting worries this way can make them feel more manageable and reduce time spent caught in “what if” loops.
If worry takes up a large part of most days, has lasted for months, or is affecting your sleep, work or relationships, speak to your doctor. Generalised anxiety disorder is common and treatable, and CBT is one of the most effective treatments.
A CBT flowchart that helps you decide whether a worry is something you can act on, and then either make a plan or practise letting it go.
A “what if” about something that may or may not happen, or something you cannot influence right now.
Schedule a specific time to deal with it and write it down. Knowing when you will act makes it easier to let it rest until then.
Use the worry tree to sort a single worry. Use worry time to postpone the hypothetical ones to a set time each day.